How To Seduce A Woman

July 5, 2012

If you are wondering how to seduce a woman and the killer ways to make a woman love you then you are definitely at the right place and the right time. In this rather short blog post I will share with you some things I know when it comes to love, dating and relationships.

You might be wondering why men seem to be having problems with women. It’s quite simple, really. Men have been brainwashed into believing that in order to make a woman like him he will need to start kissing butt and doing whatever the woman asks him to do. Total hogwash. You don’t need to be kissing ass when it comes to dating and seducing women. In fact, that may well sabotage your game.

If you want to know the real deal about seducing women and you want to have a quality dating life then continue reading. You will discover the killer ways on how to attract women quickly and easily without ever sacrificing your principles and ethics. Continue reading…

How To Seduce A Woman – Even If You Are Not Rich, Handsome Or Smart

Look, I understand that nobody has got a degree from Harvard or Stanford. I only had a degree from Yale (where George Bush graduated from – which speaks volumes of my intellect). And yet I know how to seduce a woman easily and effectively – and I know the techniques on making a woman love me. It’s all quite easy because I have done it many, many times. I may not be smart (and I only drive an old BMW), but yet I am more successful with women than most of my friends. All I do is to follow these simple tips and techniques:-

  • Master the art of female psychology. Some guys think that they need to completely master the subject of psychology, but that is completely unnecessary. Read the essentials of persuasion and psychology – a good book is Robert Greene’s Art of Seduction.
  • Know about female loophole techniques. Google “female loophole” and “fractionation” if you want to know more. These are state-of-the-art seduction tactics which work like magic – if you want to know how to make a girl fall in love with you quickly then these tactics are a must. They are quite “amoral”, and when you use them make sure that you don’t abuse them! There’s no use in turning women into total stalkers when it comes to love, dating and seduction.
  • Practice. Don’t be what the seduction community calls a “keyboard jockey”. Learn all the seduction techniques you want, and then go out there and use them. Practice makes perfect when it comes to dating and seducing women.
  • Practice good grooming. The best man at my marriage was a fat slob, and that’s the reason why he couldn’t get laid. Don’t make this stupid mistake. Go join your local gym and start working out. Nobody (not even your best friends) will want to hang out with you if you are a fatty.

Action Steps You Can Take Immediately

For starters, start reading and researching on good seduction products. Most stuff you find online is crap. The problem is that there are a lot of self proclaimed dating gurus out there who are dispensing advice just to make money. Avoid these charlatans like a plague. And no, you don’t need a KLCC condo if you want to be successful with women. You don’t have to be a real estate mogul either!

Instead, join your local seduction lair and start networking with your fellow seducers. Start by exchanging tips and techniques, and go out together. Analyze your game together, and grow up together as seducers. When you are not out there in the field, read materials by bona fide seduction gurus and teachers such as Mystery, Zan Perrion, Derek Rake and Neil Strauss. These men are the real deal when it comes to dating expertise. Read as much as possible, and this will bring your seduction game to the next level.

How To Attract Women

August 13, 2012

Many guys find it hard when it comes to be successful at dating and love. There is just too much confusing information out there in the world today. If you are new to seducing women, you will be amazed with the amount of (sometimes contradicting) information on relationships and attraction. For example, below are a list of “schools of seduction” which greatly differ from one another:-

  • Natural game
  • Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) based seduction
  • Routine-based game
  • Female psychology loopholes
  • Mind control / persuasion (for example, the Dark Rake Method)
  • Symbolic fractionation (for example, the October Man Sequence technique)
  • Alpha male / inner game (e.g. John Alexander)
  • Storytelling
  • Direct game
  • Indirect game (e.g. Mystery Method)

If you are new to all this, you will think that you are spoiled for choice when it comes to choosing the right knowledge on dating and seducing women. The truth is that these different types of approach to seduction often are contradictory with one another. However, there is an easy way out if you want to know how to seduce women properly without being stuck at one particular style of seduction. Read on to discover how to do this and achieve killer results with girls fast…

How To Attract Women – Using “Neutral” Seduction Techniques And Tricks

Recognize that the most powerful seduction technique is based on human persuasion and psychology. Many of these techniques (for example, fractionation hypnosis) has been adapted in the use of dating and seducing women since the 1980’s (when the seduction community was born on the Internet). Therefore, if you really want to be good with women, you will need to master the fractionation technique. Google the term “fractionation” or “fractionation seduction” for some links on how this seduction technology works – you won’t regret it.

Remember to always practice everything that you read online at seduction forums (for example, Knowledge is useless without application, and this is especially true when it comes to acquiring seduction abilities. With the right techniques and ample practice you will be able to seduce any woman you want and make her your girlfriend in no time at all. Also get some practice on relationship quizzes so that you are well versed in the terminology of seduction. Also watch some videos on seduction if you have got the time.

So you’ve heard about this hot new seduction tactic called fractionation and am piqued about it. I don’t blame you. After all, the technique has been hyped to death by many dating and seduction gurus for the past year. So, is the technique as effective as it is said to be? Now I don’t want to burst your bubble but here are some facts about fractionation and how to use it to seduce women that you must know. Read on…

Fractionation Seduction – The Fact And The Fiction

  • If you don’t have at least a working knowledge of how hypnosis works, then it will be difficult for you to use fractionation to seduce women. In fact, much of fractionation seduction is based on the proper execution of the technique by first creating emotional connection with the woman, and then using symbol fractionation to make her fall in love quickly. If you don’t even know how to talk to a woman and establish a common rapport (a common problem with many guys who are having problems with women) then the technique won’t do you any good. That’s the truth, sadly.
  • It’s not a “magic bullet”, or a short cut to dating success, unfortunately, unlike what some gurus try to tell you. It require work and practice.
  • If you have mastered the October Man Sequence (a type of Neuro Linguistic Programming technique which has been applied into the field of dating and seduction) then you will find it easy to apply fractionation as it is based on the same principles. The October Man, which first gained limelight from Neil Strauss’ book The Game, is also based on symbol fractionation, and is known to be able to make women fall in love in as quickly as 16 minutes from start till finish.

So what you need to do now is NOT to start reading up on hypnosis and persuasion (although that certainly helps). There is, however, a shortcut when it comes to mastering the usage of fractionation to seduce women. What you must do is to go download this blueprint (or a set of instructions) on how to use fractionation in order to seduce women. Called FractionationX, it was developed by dating guru Derek Rake (check out his website at for his personal clients (which then got leaked to the outside world, gaining media publicity quickly). Google it, and download it in order to learn how to use fractionation properly. It’s a set of video and PDF file which gives detailed instructions on how to use the technique in order to attract women and make them fall in love. Essential reading.

Mastering The Art of Picking Up Women

If you are looking for the ultimate secret when it comes to picking up women and making them love you, then you must check out this link – . It has got some of the best seduction techniques and advice when it comes to making a girl fall in love with you. If you have got problems making relationships work then you have got to check this out. Once you mastered the methods on how to pick up girls then you will be able to live a happy life with your chosen girlfriend. Dating can be fun after all!

Now if you are interested go check out some seduction forums online which will give you the information you need to be successful with women. Otherwise, go to and start to get the ultimate advantage when it comes to dating and seducing women.

Here’s a funny video on seduction found on YouTube. Called “Upstairs Girl”, this is a channel on a pair of women on seduction and dating gone wrong. Really funny (and sexy) scene of a woman overcoming a man on the field. A must watch!


Recently I have been getting emails on the tricky question of “what women want”, and what defines a desirable man. The answer is pretty simple, but most guys completely miss this. Below is a list of characteristics that women wants in a man, and not surprisingly, it is also the definition of the prototype “alpha male” which is so desirable to women.

What Women Want – Characteristics Of The Alpha Male

  • Confidence. Inner game characteristics, surety, and anxiety-free. This remains the top trait of a desirable man. This is also one of the key points inside David Deida’s Book – The Way Of The Superior Man.
  • Looks. Don’t be fooled by dating gurus who tell you that you can look sloppy and still get laid. That’s a lie propagated by self proclaimed seduction “experts” who are out there just to make a quick buck. Stick to proven dating and relation experts such as Derek Rake (, Neil Strauss, Harjit Singh and JohnnyBee.
  • Money. Again, money is a key attraction factor. This can be manifested in many ways – for example, if you drive a Lamborghini, have a nice, posh piece of property, or other indications of wealth (like jade rings).
  • Health. If you have been a past Men’s Health cover model then you have got a better chance in dating and getting women attracted to you than, say, a fat slob who works in the marketing communications department at your local convenience store. That’s a fact. If you are fat, then hit the gym already. There’s no excuse for being fat, although it’s excusable to be ugly since you can’t help it.

I stumbled upon this really cool article about seeking love online on the New York Times website –

Online Dating as Scientific Research

It is definitely a good read, and an eye opener as far as Internet dating is concerned. Many guys ask me if I think that a female loophole technique such as fractionation would work when the lines are delivered “virtually”. The answer is: it depends. Sometimes it’s easier to use techniques such as fractionation ( or even the October Man Sequence online because you won’t risk fumbling your lines. On the other hand, the effectiveness could well be reduced because of a few factors:-

  • The woman won’t be able to see your body language
  • Delivering hypnotic and covert persuasion lines could be creepy over the Internet, especially in the absence of context
  • Tone of voice is, well, absent, and largely a figment of the woman’s imagination

So for these reasons I would discourage my students from using these female psychology seduction techniques online. This is especially so when the student or client is still relatively inexperienced when it comes to the seduction and dating game. Internet dating is really dynamic, and one has got to be on top of his game in order to do well. It’s true!

The current trend in the seduction world is to utilize female psychology techniques in order to “hack” into a woman’s mind and make her fall in love. While many traditional dating and relationship gurus tend to frown on this, but the techniques definitely work, and they work really well. Anybody who are seeking to sharpen their dating skills would do well with these dating techniques and tactics.